–Approach Mindset Exercise

I want you to just sit in a high traffic area and approach a girl that you like the look of. You’re going to notice the conscious things she did as far as her fashion and you’re going to give her a specific compliment about how it makes her more beautiful.

So take a day, sit there for like 10 or 15 minutes until you get your mind in that zone where you’re noticing those things.

And then approach three women with that compliment. In this case, you’re not going to run up to them. You’re not going to run up and say “Those earrings look great on you.”

That doesn’t really make a lot of sense, that might look like you’re some kind of fashion person. What you’re going to do instead is notice this about women who are moving slower or more stationary.

Maybe you come to an intersection together. Women who are sitting in the park, who are sitting in a café, especially women who are sitting outside.

 

This exercise will give you more flexibility in your openings. It will help you alleviate some of the anxiety of the approach.

You’re saying the same thing over and over because you’re still nervous. You haven’t done enough. You aren’t pushing yourself when it sucks. When you do that, you will reduce your anxiety and that’s when you’ll be able to think of something creative, something relevant to the moment on your feet.

You’ll start to be able to say just the right thing at the right moment. It’s very intuitive. There’s no formula for having a good way to approach a woman. Once you get to a certain level, it’s intuitive and this exercise will help develop that intuition.

You’re practicing mindset. That’s when it sucks. You’re noticing conscious decisions she made to be more beautiful and you’re using that to approach her and show sexual interest in an appreciative but less intense way.