Author Archives: Brian


–Self-deprecating Approach

I saw this girl walk into the grocery store that’s near my place and she was hot. She was my type – really pretty brunette, looked exotic. She goes in there and so I just follow her in. Sometimes you can feel like you’re on the prowl when you’re going after women so to help…

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–The Most Powerful Mindset For Sex (Giving vs. Getting)

You are not trying to appease others (especially women) so that they let you be in their lives. You do not put pressure on her for sex.   First of all, sex is not something you are trying to get. Her vagina is not made of gold.   The attitude you should have is, you…

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–I:PA*CE Makes You A Leader

I:PA*CE makes other men like and respect you. Now, this is important in two ways. Firstly, the name of the site is “Go Beyond Dating” so I expect that you’re going to be using a lot of this information in other aspects of your life. A lot of my students tell me “I do I:PA*CE…

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–Train Your Future Self

For now, it’s not about whether or not you want to approach these women. If you do it now, you’ll benefit in the long-term. So in those moments when you do feel like it, you are really turned on by a girl and wanna make something happen, you’re able to, because you put in the…

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–She Needs To Help You

She is wired to play a supportive role in relationships because that is her best-bet at survival. That is the best survival strategy, keeping a man. What will keep her in your life? Why will you keep seeing her? Why will you develop not just a sexual relationship, but a friendship with this woman because…

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–How To Be Funny By Relating

Pace can make you the funny guy in the room. And people will laugh for different reasons. People laugh when you tease them. When a girl says something silly and you call her on it, she’ll laugh at herself. That let’s her know that you’re the kind of guy who can make her laugh. The…

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–What You Fear, You Face

I’m of the opinion that human life is all about fear. That’s why we’re here. Everything you do, everything you experience comes from a fear you have. Human life is defined by fear, and the challenge is to figure out how not to be controlled by it. So whatever it is you’re fearing, whatever idea…

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Women communicate in messages.   They communicate nonverbally much more than men dol. So, when you say something to a woman, she is listening to what you’re saying but she’s really paying attention to why you’re saying what you’re saying.   The why is the message.   This is really easy to understand if you…

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–She Wants Your Best Self

Every guy has his own unique personality and style. Women are wired to respond more to a full and unique experience with a man, rather than a calculated one. The one thing that women tell me all the time is that I’m not like any guy they’ve met before. I started to wonder what it…

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–Approaching (Part II)

The key to successfully approaching a woman is sending a message of love, showing appreciation and gratitude for, if nothing else, her femininity. Basically just thanking a girl for brightening up your day. A woman’s beauty is a good enough reason to talk to her. In fact it’s the BEST reason, a perfect reason. It’s…

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