Author Archives: Brian

–Get Women By Being Yourself

Overview: Behavior becomes attractive without technique or conscious effort. Naturally makes your behavior attractive – women are turned on as a byproduct – just like her tits turn men on as a byproduct of them just being there ***6 Guys I grew up with. Now it’s me, “what’s he got? “ now my friends say…

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–It’s A Numbers Game

I went out the other night. It wasn’t the greatest night, because I kept feeling like I had no mojo. So I was approaching girls but there was no passion, no real strong direction, but there was no fear either. I ended up talking to some women, got a couple numbers. I don’t know if…

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–The Power Of The Pedestal

So, lets say you think of something to say to her like, “Hey, how are you?” (Let’s keep it simple here folks).   You approach her and ask “Hey, how are you?”   She looks you dead in the eyes and responds “Oh, I’m fine.”   …   … then your brain starts spinning again…

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–Automatically Self-Perpetuating Clarity of Vision

Pace is how to make people like you. Pace sidesteps the need for beliefs. Pace teachesallows you how to think, rather than how to act. Pace is how a person who likes themselves thinks. I’m basically taking the frame of mind of a confident guy and giving it to you. I’m adapting the lens that…

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–Reframe with Practice

Learning is how you reframe. There’s been women I’ve met that I’ve felt were in the 99 percentile of attractiveness. They also had it together; really cool personalities and they had fun lives that were guided by their passion. They were doing something with their life they were really passionate about. Whether they’re successful or…

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–The Pedestal Mentality

It all starts in your mind.   The Pedestal Mentality is an insidious and destructive poison that we are exposed to non stop. Its subtle yet all-pervasive nature makes it all the more dangerous.   We’re constantly being exposed to it. Not only in the media but among our peers, friends and families. It’s everywhere.…

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— Adapt and Evolve [Troubleshoot yourself]

Pace is a troubleshooting system. It essentially gives you the tools to troubleshoot yourself when interacting with women. It’s like a diagnostic tool. If you do something that elicits a weird or negative reaction from the girl, you can immediately look back on what you said and understand why. There’s power in having the ability…

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— Being Good Enough

I think the fundamental dissonance is the idea that somehow you’re wrong compared to the standard of who you’re supposed to be. That who you are right now is different from that ideal, and that’s bad. It’s this idea that you’re not good enough. Let’s look at a couple of things. On the surface these…

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— Personal Paradigm Shift

As men who are training to get elite-level results with women and “go beyond dating”, we must make a personal paradigm shift.   We need to be aware of, and enact the opposite of the traditional dating dynamic.   The traditional script is basically composed of four or five acts.   Act One: You see…

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Thinking About Sex (Getting her to think about having sex with you)

It’s important to get really clear about who you are and what you want out of sex. You need to express that, but couple it with the ability to let go. You do this in conversation in your initial interactions by stating what you’re about and being clear on the kind of man you are.…

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