Author Archives: Brian

Adapt and Evolve [Troubleshoot yourself]

Pace is a troubleshooting system. It essentially gives you the tools to troubleshoot yourself when interacting with women. It’s like a diagnostic tool. If you do something that elicits a weird or negative reaction from the girl, you can immediately look back on what you said and understand why. There’s power in having the ability…

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Being Good Enough

I think the fundamental dissonance is the idea that somehow you’re wrong compared to the standard of who you’re supposed to be. That who you are right now is different from that ideal, and that’s bad. It’s this idea that you’re not good enough. Let’s look at a couple of things. On the surface these…

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Personal Paradigm Shift

As men who are training to get elite-level results with women and “go beyond dating”, we must make a personal paradigm shift.   We need to be aware of, and enact the opposite of the traditional dating dynamic.   The traditional script is basically composed of four or five acts.   Act One: You see…

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How And Why I Pushed Her Away [How To Avoid Losing Your Girlfriend]

Growing up, girls would occasionally show interest in me, but I was really shy and awkward. When I tried to talk to them, I would embarrass myself. But most of the time I just chickened out.   But, I would always fail with girls.   Looking back, I realize I was brainwashed into thinking that…

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Easy to Learn, Easy to Apply

To get elite results and to get them fast you need a non-linear system: Pace is that system, and it is surprisingly easy to apply.   It’s easy to learn and internalize deceptive behaviors. But Pace can be easily applied to your life because you’re already doing it. The problem is that you’re also doing…

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Keeping Yourself Honest

You can change how you think.   The mind is infinitely creative, but also extremely habituating. This blinds the mind from its own creativity and flexibility. In plain language: you have the power to change. But once you get set in your ways, you forget this power. Your thought habits actually change your brain, by…

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Surrender

Surrender is what you want her to do. It’s what she wants to do. Instead of spending time on learning lines, routines and tricks, become a man women want to surrender to. True control must first be given. Why would she give you control? Why do YOU give control? What makes you trust a coach,…

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The Fastest Way To Improve Your Self Esteem

I’ve struggled with social anxiety, depression, and self-esteem issues my whole life, up until my mid 20s. I fixed it (wasn’t easy but worth the effort) and became a dating coach for men (7 years ago). That’s how drastic the transformation was. What I’m going to say here was a HUGE KEY to that change.…

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Friendship

Men treat women as enemies, opponents to be conquered, defeated, used. Sex is victory. Rejection, defeat. He wants her body, in spite of her mind. He tries to sneak inside of her. He tricks her, lies to her, pressures her, abandons her. Guilt trips, empty promises, sly maneuvers. He pretends to be a different man.…

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See Her

Do You See Her?

Do you See Her? Do you go out to meet “women” “bitches” “hoes” or get “pussy”? I go out to Look for Her. When I find Her, I See Her. I don’t think about the concept of “women.” In fact, there’s very little thinking going. I’m listening, watching, smelling, feeling. I drink Her in. I…

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