Procrastination
For people who have trouble procrastinating and people who are afraid of rejection, they’re going to end up spending a lot of time trying to read and understand everything before just going out and doing it because they don’t want to be seen as stupid or wrong.
Procrastination is all about trying to get it perfect. It’s like two sides of the same coin. Either being perfect or putting it off and procrastinating because it’s overwhelming.
What you think you have to do, the standards you think you have to meet are way beyond what you think you’re capable of right now. Or you think it’s just going to be too hard.
It’s going to be too hard to do this so you keep putting it off and putting it off.
I know about worrying about being good enough and isolating yourself. Having this constant nagging need to improve and get it right before you even do it once.
You have to change your attitude. Maybe I don’t have it right yet, I’m not perfect yet, I’m not a master yet but I still want to help. I still wanna do some sort of good. That can get you past that mental block.
When your intention is to help or to do some good or make someone feel good, that’s helping. I mean, appreciation, you approach one girl, tell her she’s beautiful, I consider that helping.
You really want to get your mind around the fact that when you fuck a woman, you’re actually making her feel good and that’s helping, right. When you’re helping, it’s like that bypasses the need to be perfect because the intention of doing good is more important. It’s like Christmas; it’s the thought that counts.
Your intention is more important and I think you can intuitively feel that.
