How to Connect with women
I’m going to keep this article simple. It’s about asking personal questions to women, for a romantic intention. You see, most guys ask a series of boring-ass questions hoping that at some point, the women will just drop her panties and have sex. How many questions do you have to ask before this happens? Infinity.
Here’s how you really do it. You need to ask questions that get women talking about themselves. When she does this, you can escalate (by touching her or inviting her to hang out with you) as a reward. This timing, her effort-your reward, creates the perception that you are the sexual prize she is trying to win over. This is the dynamic you need to turn a woman on and keep control in your relationship.
Here’s a list of great questions to spice up your conversations and get women talking.
What would you do if?
What if you were on a desert island and could only have one book?
One movie?
One friend?
What would you do to occupy your mind until the day you died?
What’s your favorite?
What’s your favorite character trait?
What’s your favorite food to eat?
To eat?
What’s your favorite part of a man’s body?
What’s your favorite part of your body to be kissed and sucked?
What do you NOT want?
What turns you off when you meet a guy?
What makes you distrust people?
What do you dislike about yourself?
What would disappoint you most if you had a child?
What makes you smile and laugh?
What do you want to do for income, eventually?
What is your favorite funny TV show/movie?
What’s your favorite joke?
How do you remember to not take life too seriously?Which friend makes you laugh the most? Why?
What makes you angry and motivated?
What’s your biggest pet peeve?
What’s the angriest you’ve ever been?
Who do you hate the most?
Have you ever felt so angry that you had to prove yourself?
What drives you?
What’s your passion?
What world-crisis pisses you off enough to make you act?
Think about the common theme underlying all these questions. They are all designed to get someone thinking. The good news is that women love to talk about themselves, and explore how their minds work. When you can get a woman to look inside her mind and explore her own personality, she’ll love you. The reason for this? Women are culturally conditioned to think about everyone else more than themselves. So when you open her up to herself, she feels like she’s exploring a new universe. It’s because of you – your own curiosity.
The very act of exploring a woman mentally is just as erotic to her as exploring her body. The nature of a woman is to want to be wanted. So when you show your interests in her personality, her very nature as a woman gets “lit up.” If you’re a man, and she’s a woman, this “light up” in terms of her being attended to and explored, turns her on. In other words, she gets wet when you are curious about her. This is why your attention/curiosity is your strongest tool when it comes to meeting and attracting women.
