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–Elite, Permanent, Fun

(I:PA*CE eliminates anxiety + promotes the zone) Eliminates anxiety – you have more fun and don’t have a panic attack. ** 9 -asking girl to prom, holloween store, chicago streets I:PA*CE eliminates anxiety. I:PA*CE leads to positive interactions. You have fun with people. Think about times when you were talking with your best friend. You…

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–Don’t Identify, Explore

Women are an opportunity for you to have new experiences and to experience courage. They’re also a way to help you habitualize a helping mindset. The goal is to learn about a woman rather than trying to figure women out. That’s why I say awareness is all about exploring rather than identifying specific unifying themes…

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–Seeking: Approval

Most guys engage in approval seeking. They don’t really know what they stand for. They’re asking the woman what they should stand for. They’re trying to figure out what she wants and that’s weak. Instead, know what you want, and see if she’s aligned with that.   I’ll say to women I meet, “I just…

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–Infinite variation and contextual adaptation

Is undetectable – infinite variation and contextual adaptation. ** 8 DONT HAVE TO HIDE WHAT YOU ARE LEARNING = 10 , “glass ceiling” It’s undetectable. A lot of times, when guys read lines or routines or seduction stuff (the pickup artist stuff). A big concern is that maybe this woman has heard this before. Some…

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I think of growth in terms of subtraction. Getting rid of layers. Getting rid of extra thoughts and extra stuff in your life. So growth kind of gives you the idea that you’re moving up and out and forward. But at the same time, you also want to think about subtracting stuff that doesn’t need…

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–Who To Trust?

A very common thing you will hear from women is that they’ve been hurt by someone in the past. What you want to do in this situation is flip it. Who cares whether you trust me – the question is, do I trust you?   So, I’ll say, “Yeah, well, trust isn’t earned overnight. I’ve…

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–Beat the System

(I:PA*CE promotes awareness, encourages authentic expression) ( I was missing opps, girls would laugh then look at me like wtf, or eye code their friends, then get bored while I was chatting away. SHE WANTS TO INS! Stealing girls from Mystery Method guys in SD, SF, and London. Girls saying “stop trying so hard, don’t…

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For people who have trouble procrastinating and people who are afraid of rejection, they’re going to end up spending a lot of time trying to read and understand everything before just going out and doing it because they don’t want to be seen as stupid or wrong. Procrastination is all about trying to get it…

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Women are very flexible and pliable in terms of their personalities. That’s not to say that a woman doesn’t have a real personality. We all have different sides of ourselves, and women are able to shift gears a lot more easily than guys are. If you’ve ever been with a woman who is in a…

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–The Three Aspects of Awareness (How fear can fuck you up)

“Embrace” is a woman’s sexual nature—like “thrust” is yours—and “brace” is the counterpart to embrace. Explaining Embrace is like is like trying to explain what makes a man. You could talk for days on end, but what you’re really doing is trying to use words to explain an experience. A good way to think about…

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