First things first…
If you can’t last long enough in bed, it sabotages you at EVERY stage of your dealings with women.
From beginning to end.
BEFORE YOU EVEN MEET HER, your sexual confidence affects how she sees you. Her assumptions about you. Your vibe.
Ask yourself: Do you KNOW that you can rock her world once you are alone behind closed doors with her?
A former student of mine said it best:
“I used to have a nasty little voice in my head whispering at me that I could never satisfy her in bed”
Just think how that effects the way you interact with her?
But here’s the thing – not being able to last long is no fault of yours
(I’ll get to why in a sec…)
Same with me.
A few years ago, I could only last a few minutes.
I know what it’s like to go through the thrill and agony of meeting a knockout, smart, fun girl. Getting her number, following up, meeting up, and finally getting her alone and turned on.
Then that moment of her finally putting me inside her, she moans…
and a few short in & outs later…
I’m about to come! I clinch my hardest not to, but it’s too late.
I can tell she feels incredibly let-down.
My mind is buzzing with excuses to say, but I know either way it will sound pathetic.
She may text a few times after that, but I could never get her to actually meet up again…
Sure, some women gave me more chances and we’d start dating for awhile.
But eventually they’d slip away too. Deep down I knew it was because I couldn’t satisfy their needs.
I know plenty of other guys who have lost relationships due to lackluster performance
Here’s the thing…
Blowing your load fast does NOT mean there is something “wrong” with you
If anything, it’s a biological advantage.
It’s just how males are made.
It’s primal.
It’s jungle.
It keeps the tribe growing and expanding.
Unfortunately, nature has also played
a cruel joke by making
women require much longer to orgasm than men.
Most men orgasm within 6 minutes or less. Women however, 10 MINIMUM, but usually more like 15-20 minutes of solid fucking.
But my job as a man isn’t to whine and complain about nature, it’s to subdue it.
If you can last long enough to make her orgasm from penetration, there is HUGE upside…
After her first orgasm, the 2nd, the 3rd will come much quicker, and they are much more powerful for her too.
Your reward for giving a woman multiples through intercourse is 100% sexual devotion.
What guy wouldn’t want that?
So let’s dive in to HOW to last longer
How To Last Longer In Bed
Part 1: What DOESN’T work
This is important. First , we need to clear the path of what doesn’t work, or rarely, or isn’t even worth it.
I’ve tried everything…
Breathing methods don’t work – There’s a bunch of bullshit ebooks floating around saying you can delay your ejaculation with breathing patterns or methods to “circulate your internal energy”. These might help you relax a little, which is always a good thing. In all situations I highly recommend you pay attention to your breathing patterns anyways. But it sure as hell doesn’t help last longer in bed – MAYBE a few extra seconds at most. Unless you dedicate years to becoming a master of eastern spiritual practices, this isn’t the route to lasting longer in bed and giving her the solid pounding she wants.
Dick stretches won’t make you last longer – It may help keep your tool in shape, blood flow, and ready to dish out a beating without damaging your unit… but its not going to prolong your ejac response. People are advocating things like jelqing, hanging, pulling contraptions etc. Some of these can be dangerous and damage your dick. Not worth it. Be careful. Personally I do some light stretches for overall penile health. But bottom line –> they hardly help to control climax.
Thinking about baseball – Stupid mainstream bro talk. Doesn’t work, and women can tell when you aren’t present in the moment with her. It’s going to make her self-conscious and deflate her arousal and relaxation. This will completely shut off her ability to orgasm.
Horny goat weed, African tree bark, Zinc, Tongkat Ali, Yohimbine etc. don’t help you last longer during sex – There’s many herbs and supplements which people claim have stamina increasing effects, but I’ver never met a guy they worked for, including myself. They may increase your arousal some, and a general feeling of sexual charge, but they DON’T increase your ability to last longer during sex when you need it most.
Kegels and pc exercises are only a start- these can act as a solid FOUNDATION, but without months of rigorous discipline, they won’t actually make your stamina or endurance strong enough to keep yourself from coming too fast. I highly recommend kegels and”Stalins”. I do them myself because stronger PC muscles are always a good thing. Bottom line: do them, but you’ll need more to be able to last longer and control your ejac response, especially if you need to last longer NOW.
What ACTUALLY WORKS to last longer in bed
Some are better than others
Alcohol – Old school. Can help a little bit, but unpredictable. And we all know there are huge drawbacks to alcohol. Besides, drinking can make you go limp – not a good trade off!
Numbing creams/sprays – Many of these work ( Promescent is a well known brand), but do you really want to have sex with a numb dick? Kills all the fun, and huge risk of going soft from lack of sensation. Plus if you’re anything like me, blowjobs are a must – not gonna fly with creams & sprays all over your rod.
Dapoxetine – Effective but risky little pills. Sometimes sold under the brandnames Priligy and Westoxetin. “Dapo” does in fact work to last longer without the drawback of losing your erection, so that’s good. I first tried Dapoxetine while visiting an old fling in Canada (we first met in NYC while she was on vacation). This was before I really read up on it though. I only later found out it’s not available in the US without a prescription, and there are other MAJOR drawbacks.
Like I said, it’s only available by prescription in the US and many counties. More specifically, it’s an SSRI (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor). If you know anything about SSRI’s, I simply WOULD NOT gamble with them. They have a terrible track record of making people go crazy in the brain. Literally. Mainstream news covers this up, but a large majority of “mass shooters” in the past 20 years were on some form of SSRI medication leading up to and during their killing spree. Yikes. Also SSRIs, of all kinds, decrease libido in the long run, so it’s a self-defeating tradeoff.
MSK – My favorite by far. Relatively unknown in North America, MSK is a plant from southeast asia that has gotten more attention lately (but not for premature ejaculation reasons). It goes by a lot of nicknames and has several different uses, which may be why I had never heard of it myself until October of 2016.
Actually my business partner Jesse is who told me about it. He began using MSK in order to focus better on coding/programming work, which is one of the uses for it (if you take it in higher doses). However, he eventually noticed a pattern. The days he would take some, he would last super long with his girl. Like over 30 minutes long and WITHOUT any loss of sensation, no numbness, etc.
He shared the news with me and I’ve tried it out myself. THIS. STUFF. WORKS.
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To your success
-Brian
Brian Burke