Author Archives: Brian
Keeping Yourself Honest
You can change how you think. The mind is infinitely creative, but also extremely habituating. This blinds the mind from its own creativity and flexibility. In plain language: you have the power to change. But once you get set in your ways, you forget this power. Your thought habits actually change your brain, by…
Surrender
Surrender is what you want her to do. It’s what she wants to do. Instead of spending time on learning lines, routines and tricks, become a man women want to surrender to. True control must first be given. Why would she give you control? Why do YOU give control? What makes you trust a coach,…
The Fastest Way To Improve Your Self Esteem
I’ve struggled with social anxiety, depression, and self-esteem issues my whole life, up until my mid 20s. I fixed it (wasn’t easy but worth the effort) and became a dating coach for men (7 years ago). That’s how drastic the transformation was. What I’m going to say here was a HUGE KEY to that change.…
Friendship
Men treat women as enemies, opponents to be conquered, defeated, used. Sex is victory. Rejection, defeat. He wants her body, in spite of her mind. He tries to sneak inside of her. He tricks her, lies to her, pressures her, abandons her. Guilt trips, empty promises, sly maneuvers. He pretends to be a different man.…
Do You See Her?
Do you See Her? Do you go out to meet “women” “bitches” “hoes” or get “pussy”? I go out to Look for Her. When I find Her, I See Her. I don’t think about the concept of “women.” In fact, there’s very little thinking going. I’m listening, watching, smelling, feeling. I drink Her in. I…
Social Success for Introverts: SUBTRACTION
The misconception about self-improvement is that it’s about acquiring skills and new ideas. That’s task improvement, or skill improvement. If you want to learn how to fix cars, sure, you need to learn new things. “With women, my direction has been to become unhidden, to reduce the layers of my personality intended to hide my…
25 Ways To Disrespect a Woman
Deny and ridicule her sexuality. Ignore her sexuality and treat her like a child. Give her 2 options: Madonna, or whore. Tell her that her desires are bad. Put her on a pedestal and supplicate to her, so she feels alienated and objectified. Make rules for what she can do with her body. Insult everyone’s…
Thrust and Embrace
Animus: Purpose; intention, animating spirit. The masculine principle, especially as present in women -you know her because she’s a part of you. Anima: soul; life. The inner personality that is turned toward the unconscious of the individidual. The feminine principle, especially as present in men. -she knows you because you are a part of her.…
Inspiration
As she walks by, her breasts bounce gently under her thin t-shirt. Her butt jiggles tightly – her yoga pants stretched around her soft round bubble. Her hips roll, her hair sways. Her face is calm, oblivious to my gaze. She Inspires me as she is. She IS my Inspiration. I imagine us alone, her…
Nurturance
“I need your help.” I was a senior in high school, at a house party talking to my friend’s older sister. She told me these four words were the most powerful words you could say to a woman. 13 years later, I get it. Opposed, we fight, lie, and our attention is distracted, our energy…
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